When I was a little girl, I loved the movie Stitch, but it was not until recently that I found how touching the movie was. There was a line in the movie when Lilo said to Stitch: "ONANA means family, and Family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten." Well, when I was small, I could not image that one day my family would be in some way different form the others, different from kids with parents each holding their two little hands, different from kids whom are kissed and loved by both their mother and father.
Sometimes, it is about cherishing, so I am satisfied with what I have now. I love my mother, and my grandparents and my aunties are loving as well. As a big family, we get together really well, and we are close. And in some place deep in my heart, I believe that my father loves me as well, just that he got to be with the other small kid and the other family. Maybe he did not contact me because he simply have not find a good way to do so. And family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten right? So my father will not left me behind nor forget me, just that he have not find a way to contact me, or after all these things, to comfort me.
This semester, we have been writing about lessons learned from life or experiences. Well, I learned that...
If one day, I shall have a family,
I will, with my life, make it a great one
one that have kids happily grown up knowing what love is
and that it is the most precious thing in the world parents could have given to children
A family that children know they will be safe, will be loved, and cared.
Will have parents holding both of their little hands, walking down the streets and playing happily in the playgrounds.
I know it may sound too idealism, but if all of us start to establish this concept now, maybe we can fight for such an ideal, or dream in the future. :)